What you should read next – March 2019 – “I began to experience the most powerful advantage of money — the ability to think of things besides money.”

By | March 15, 2019

An American Marriage: A Novel by Tayari Jones I picked this book up because I’m going on a cruise in March and there is a book club on the cruise and this was the club’s selection, so of course I ordered it from the library and read it before going. It’s an Oprah book club… Read More »

Mattha recipe – Spicy buttermilk

By | March 8, 2019

I’m writing down one more recipe from India that made me giddy. Spicy buttermilk. Mattha. It’s pronounced “muh tah” with that second syllable being the one that mom says I’m pronouncing wrong. Mom: Not tah! It’s tah. Me: I’m saying the same thing you are! Mom: No, you’re not! Ingredients Directions We are continuing our tour through… Read More »

Roots – the next chapter

By | March 5, 2019

Old, unpublished post # __. I wrote this when trying to decide where to live. I have a fair amount of wanderlust, moving abroad more than once, hopping on a plane whenever I can, working as a flight attendant, spending several years of my life as a nomad. It sounds cooler than it feels. Often… Read More »

How to not be a lemming

By | February 26, 2019

Most people are lemmings about most things. To borrow the eloquence of Martha Stewart, that’s a good thing. Mostly. There are a TON of things in this life to learn about and it’s simply impossible for any single puny human being to take the time to make an informed decision about everything. Most people are… Read More »

How to decide if a salary bump is worth the move or another article from years ago that I never published because you know all this stuff already and it’s too much excruciating detail that nobody but me cares about.

By | February 22, 2019

My friend Mimi is contemplating relocating from Chicago, Illinois to Sydney, Australia for her job. The assignment would last anywhere from 18-24 months and comes with a cost of living increase. She asked me, since I’m trying to impersonate a personal finance guru, if the move was “worth it.” So I asked her some questions… Read More »

Brad’s Status

By | February 18, 2019

Have you seen Brad’s Status? Yeah, I had never heard of it either before I saw it. It’s a movie starring Ben Stiller and, since it’s my policy to always say yes to people who ask me to do things when I’m free, I ended up seeing it in the theater. Our protagonist, Brad, lives with… Read More »

Book Reviews – February 2019 – “It is the product of an unimaginative girl, preoccupied with herself, and continually splashing about in the shallow waters of her own narrow psyche.”

By | February 11, 2019

Three to get married by Fulton J. Sheen A play about three daughters getting married. A comedy, I think. Their father is a priest and marries them off quickly and rather absurdly.  I don’t read many plays. This one doesn’t convince me to try more. I’ll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman’s Obsessive Search for the… Read More »

Colombia Bucket List

By | February 4, 2019

I had this idea to give up my apartment in Denver and go meander around South America because it started to snow in Denver and I hate the snow. Some friends from the States were hanging out in Colombia for a while and I finagled an invitation to join them. I texted friends who live… Read More »

Updating my Chart – 2018

By | January 15, 2019

The year ended! 2018 retired and it’s time to update my chart! But, first, if you don’t mind, a stroll through history. History lesson I was reading through my old journals and I came across some fun stuff I think you’ll like seeing. Or maybe you won’t. I don’t know what you like anymore. How… Read More »