Mark and I went on the first of several honeymoons last December. I found a one-way flight for $240 from SFO to Tahiti and built the trip around that. Did you know that French Polynesia is only eight hours away from San Francisco? Yeah, me neither. So, French Bee is a low cost carrier and… Read More: On Business Class seats »
Ghana! And Sao Tome! I’ve visited Morocco and Egypt before, but this was my first foray into the middle part of Africa. I picked Ghana because they speak English and it’s safe. From what I’ve read. I picked Sao Tome because I’ve really started liking beach vacations since I learned to swim. And it’s safe.… Read More: Ghana and Sao Tome Bucket List »
See earlier article for part one where I talk about jumping into the deep end of the pool, treading water, the backstroke, and the front crawl. When I published the first part, I didn’t actually know the breaststroke yet, but I thought I could learn it in the lessons I had left in August 2024.… Read More: Learn to swim part II »
We went to Tokyo and Ulaanbaatar and the steppes of Mongolia. Did I tell you? Tokyo bucket list 1. Eat all the food in Tokyo. Oh man. Tokyo knows food. Japan knows food. Every single thing we ate there delighted the senses. Souffle pancakes. Real wasabi. Egg salad sandwiches from 7/11 every single morning. Onigiri.… Read More: Tokyo/Mongolia bucket list »
So Mark and I married each other, officially, formally, culturally, happily in front of everyone we know. It was not a traditional affair in many senses, but it hewed somewhat to what various ancestors may have done. The wedding was a three day affair in Cancun, Mexico from October 23 – October 26th, 2025 at… Read More: We married! Want to see some pics? »
Poor Mark. I was in a bad mood for weeks. Sad and anxious. Mostly anxious. But oh so very anxious. I was actively dreading my scuba lessons. I haven’t actively dreaded something since I quit working. It’s an unpleasant feeling that I don’t miss. Water is my Everest. Swimming is terrifying. I’ve been trying to… Read More: Life Bucket List Item Complete! #39 Go scuba diving »
In my book, I have various expenses that deplete your net worth. One of those expenses was owning a timeshare. I don’t think they’re worth buying and I think they’ll delay your retirement goals in a negative way. Every once in a while, though, I like to test my truths. Is a timeshare presentation a… Read More: I went to a timeshare presentation so you don’t have… »
I’m updating my chart for the last time for y’all! We’re married and merging finances and Mark doesn’t want his business all over the interwebs for the world to see and know and discuss. Which, fair. In 2024, I spent substantially more than in the past few years. It was on a lot of things.… Read More: Updating my chart – 2024 edition »
I recently got a temporary job as an election supervisor for the city of Denver. It was a lot of hours. 11 to 16 hours a day for eight out of nine days until the election. I helped administer state-wide ballots for those who weren’t in the correct county, oversaw the registration judges, support judges,… Read More: I don’t miss this »
So, we’re married! At least in the eyes of my parents’ gods. Not witnessed by anyone besides our parents. And the pandit. We took the marriage as a sign to take a mini honeymoon. Our idea: a 100-person destination wedding in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic. We’ve both never been, so this was a chance to… Read More: Scouting trip to the Dominican Republic »