An old friend called me up the other day and asked me to loan him some money. He was one of my favorite people once, but I haven’t spoken to him in years and I haven’t seen his face in more than a decade, so his request startled me. Nobody has ever asked me for… Read More: I don’t know what it’s like to be poor »
I’ll tell you what I’m reading if you tell me what you’re reading. Atomic Habits by James Clear I like the author’s blog, so I picked up his book. It’s good, but there’s not really any new information in there. Systems, not goals. Make a habit your identity. Get into the state of flow. He… Read More: What you should read next – July 2019 – “There… »
How is the first week on the resolutions chart roller coaster coming along? You’re either building up some beautiful streaks or you’re still in the running for a good grade or you’re huddled off to the side and feeling resentful for this reminder of how terrible your resolutions are coming along. No, no, no. Let… Read More: I’m just checking in with you »
When spending Do you ever put off purchases for a few days to catch the next month credit card billing cycle even though you have the money and it doesn’t matter in the slightest? ************************************************************************ Have you ever read the shopaholic series? It’s about a lady who is seriously in debt because of a shopping… Read More: Does anyone else do this? »
I send my future self emails from the present every month. Seeing the nugget in my inbox from old me always makes my moment, so I find it worth the effort for current me. This month, you do it with me. Go to FutureMe.Org and write yourself a letter and request delivery whenever you want.… Read More: Write a letter to the future. Do it with me.… »
Depression is a lying bitch. But I would also be misrepresenting the truth if I said I didn’t often fall for her deceptions. My resolutions chart has saved me from seeing her on the downlow more times than I can count. I’m a happier person when I do the things I “ought” to be doing.… Read More: Make a resolution chart with me for July. Come on.… »
Now that you have your five values in life, dive deep and think about resolutions you can do for each goal. Brainstorm. I add on to my lists constantly. Here are my life goals brainstorms for your perusal. Feel free to steal any, all, or none of these. Fitness Goals Brainstorm Record time working out… Read More: My Life Goals Brainstorm that you can steal from. If… »
I make lists to stave off the looming insanity. It’s a useful sword. Life goals Appreciate what I have while I have it. Do the things that I ought to be doing. Stop wasting so much time feeling sad. Be nice to yourself. Connect with other human beings. Give back. I also take a minute… Read More: What are your life goals? »
For someone who thrives with external accountability and who also brandishes a touch of depression, I found it disconcertingly easy to sink into a hole when my days boasted no structure. Oh, if I don’t make plans, nobody will actually notice if I don’t get out of bed. That’s the downside of retirement. I’m not… Read More: Did I tell you about my new job? »
First of all, I wanted to tell you that I tweaked one of my life bucket list items. Instead of trying to maintain a six-pack of ab muscles for a year — a feat which I’ve come to realize may be an unhealthy and impossible goal — my bucket list now reads “maintain a four-pack… Read More: Bucket List Item Complete! – Maintain a four-pack of abs… »